Silencing your inner critic takes time and practice, especially if yours has been taking centre stage. Maryse Cardin, author and motivational speaker from www.selftalklove.com, talks about how it is important to stop and take notice of what we are telling our selves. Is what you’re saying encouraging, complimentary or something you would say to your loved ones? If not, it’s time to turn the station and “switch the song”. Remember a happy time in your life. A time that fills you with joy. Maryse indicates that when we stop catastrophizing, and instead tell ourselves what we are grateful for, we can sooth our systems.
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Daily Routine Important for Seniors
People are afraid of the unknown. If an older adult is losing control over their physical abilities, independence, or cognitive abilities, their world gets filled with more and more unknowns. Establishing routine is extremely important for seniors. A daily routine offers a level of stability that individuals often enjoy, as it allows them to settle into a schedule they understand. Doing the same basic activities like eating, dressing, and bathing at the same time every day is known to improve sleep quality. A predictable routine also helps to reduce stress and anxiety.
Fall Prevention Tips
Falls in the home are all too common and making a few modifications in the home can prevent dangerous situations, such as slippery floors, poor lighting, loose rugs, electrical cords and clutter. Visit each room in your home. Then look at the space objectively and ask: Is this safe? Are there objects or items that present a falls risk? If so, think about the many ways to create a safer home: wear non slip socks or slippers, use night lights in dark hallways, remove throw rugs, keep electrical cords safely hidden behind furniture and organize your projects so they are off the floor and out of walkways.
Co-Regulation Comes Before Self-Regulation
Some of the little people in our lives struggle more than others to develop self-regulation skills. They need us to be their co-regulators in their moments of big feelings. Having a consistent adult that can be an effective co-regulator builds a sense of safety in a child that will give them the foundation to develop self-regulation skills.
Co-regulation is warm and responsive interactions that provide the support, coaching, and modeling children need to understand, express, and modulate their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. How can we be co-regulators when children are experiencing big feelings? *Check yourself – relax your body, remain calm and collected. *Come alongside – get down to the child’s level and acknowledge their feelings and the event that led to them. *Mirror their feelings – subtly mimic their facial expressions and name the emotion they might be feeling.
FREE Virtual Workshop for Parents
Sundrops Centre for Child Development is offering a FREE Virtual Circle of Security Workshop for Parents who wish to support and strengthen their relationship with their child. The Circle of Security (COSP™) Model helps parents and care-givers to understand their child’s emotional world by learning to read emotional needs, support their child’s ability to successfully manage emotions, enhance the development of their child’s self esteem, and honour the innate wisdom and desire for their child to be secure. Sundrops is offering two 8 week sessions (one day time and one evening group) between October 6th and November 24th via Zoom.
Your Gifts Change Lives!
Thank you to everyone who has donated to the Sundrops Centre for Child Development’s Kick Start the Bus Campaign. The generous Cowichan community has donated more than $15,000, meeting and exceeding Island Ford Superstore’s generous $10,000 matching donation! The Children & Family Support Program’s ‘Destination Summer Camp’ participants are enjoying being all together in this new, accessible vehicle and exploring the Cowichan Valley and beyond – enjoying activities such as swimming, bowling, visiting the Raptor Centre, and local parks. Thank you for making this possible. Clements Centre is still seeking and accepting donations for the remaining funds for the new bus – donations can be made online at clementscentre.org/kickstartthebus or by phone at 250-746-4135.
Profile: Clements Centre Society
The Clements Centre Society is one of the largest not-for-profit societies in the Cowichan Valley, and delivers community-based programs to almost 200 adults in the region. Programs include supported recreational activities, vocational training and a residential program to connect clients with suitable housing options. The society also runs the Sundrops Centre for Child Development in Duncan that helps support children with cognitive and physical disabilities and their families. The new Stanko-Casswell Place in Cobble Hill will feature an open space for arts, crafts and education programs, sensory quiet rooms and a modern, accessible kitchen for cooking programs.The location provides a safe and accessible space for people served in the Valley’s south end, which has a growing population and a need for more accessible day programs.
Get Listed on the WellnessHub
Are you a health care practitioner? Do you have a health and wellness business? If so, you want to get a listing on the WellnessHub – Basic listings are FREE. The WellnessHub is Vancouver Island’s local online health and wellness resource. It features practitioners, businesses, health tips, a monthly contest and much more. Monthly memberships are available for people who want extra exposure. The WellnessHub is supported in print, social media, radio and more. We work with you to get your message out to your potential customers. The Hub attracts thousands of local visitors every month.
Not Just for Style
Socks are a creative way to express your personality and style. You can even order socks with a picture of your dog on them. When choosing socks for appearance only you don’t get the many health benefits related to wearing the right socks. Socks with antibacterial properties help prevent odors and fight germs and fungus. Socks can also prevent foot pain by protecting feet from the environment and if you wear them to bed, can help you fall asleep more easily. Voxx socks not only keep your feet warm and clean smelling, they may also offer general pain relief, more energy and increased balance and stability.
Travelling with Hearing Loss
People with hearing loss have different travel experiences. Travel can be stressful but it doesn’t have to be. Many destinations are more inclusive to provide better accommodations for people with hearing loss.
Here are some tips: *Plan your itinerary to best suit your hearing loss and avoid dealing with communication issues. *Take advantage of technology and download relevant apps as they can be extremely helpful. *Advocate for yourself, don’t be afraid to tell people you have a hearing loss so they can communicate with you effectively. *Pack extra supplies to manage on the go.
Tips to Boost Immunity!
Here are four tips to improve your immunity: 1) Sugar: Cut out or significantly reduce refined sugars. Sugar from fruit is NOT the same: fruit also contains antioxidants, nutrients and fiber. 2) Exercise: Movement helps oxygenate and move your blood and lymph. Do whatever you enjoy! Outdoor air will also invigorate you and refresh your lungs. 3) Vitamin D: Getting enough D allows your white blood cells to keep up, especially during times when your body may require more such as in fall and winter. 4) Vitamin C: Eat more fresh fruit and vegetables, and supplement as needed. This vitamin helps prevent sickness and speeds recovery.
