Research shows that validating our children’s emotions is a key player in fostering connection. We often miss the simplicity of validating their emotion because we want to provide a solution, or we miss the mark because we’re uncomfortable or afraid. The key to connecting is more in an openness to “be with” them in their emotions. Not so much about what solutions you’re able to provide or how swiftly you can move them through distress. Next time your child expresses an emotion, notice your reaction and challenge yourself to show them that they are truly heard. Connection is everything!