Change is hard. But creating deep, lasting change is less about willpower and more about designing smart, effective goals. Instead of making a statement, such as I’m going to lose weight, try asking a question instead. “What would it take for me to lose weight?” By posing your resolution in the form of a question rather than a statement, you begin to engage with it. Your brain goes to work, breaking down the problem, sequencing next steps, and creating a path to success. Questions offer greater possibilities, whereas statements keep energy stuck.