The holidays can be a time of fun and togetherness, but for others, this time of the year can be a time filled with loneliness and isolation. Over the holidays (and all year), think about ways you can give back to others in your community. This can be as simple as saying hello, helping to shovel a sidewalk or driveway, or checking in on anyone you know that lives alone to make sure they are doing ok. Little things can go a long way to help others feel included and seen over the holidays.

Mental health around the holidays can be challenging for many people. It’s important to acknowledge that while the holidays can be a joyful and festive time, they can also be stressful and emotionally taxing. Here are some common issues related to mental health during the holiday season and tips for managing them:

Increased Stress: Holiday preparations, shopping, decorating, and cooking can add extra stress to an already busy schedule. Managing expectations and setting realistic goals can help reduce stress.

Financial Pressure: The pressure to buy gifts and host gatherings can strain finances. Creating a budget and sticking to it can help alleviate financial stress. Or, instead of buying gifts why not make something or host a dinner or get together. Time together is one of the best gifts you can give your friends and family.

Loneliness and Isolation: For those who are alone during the holidays or have lost loved ones, this time can be particularly difficult. It’s essential to reach out to friends and family for support and consider volunteering or attending holiday events to combat loneliness.

Family Dynamics: Family gatherings can be challenging, especially when there are unresolved conflicts or strained relationships. Setting boundaries and having a plan for managing difficult interactions can be helpful.

Unrealistic Expectations: The media often portrays a picture-perfect holiday, which can create unrealistic expectations. Remember that it’s okay if your holiday doesn’t match the ideal; focus on creating meaningful moments.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Some people experience seasonal depression during the winter months. Exposure to natural light, regular exercise, and talking to a mental health professional can be beneficial.

Overindulgence: The abundance of food and alcohol during the holidays can lead to overindulgence, which can negatively affect both physical and mental health. Moderation is key.

Seeking Help: If you’re struggling with your mental health during the holidays, don’t hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional.

Remember that it’s okay to acknowledge your feelings and seek support if you need it. The holidays can be a mix of emotions, and it’s important to prioritize your mental well-being. Additionally, reaching out to friends and family, being mindful of your own limits, and practicing gratitude can help you navigate the holiday season in a healthier way.

Many of us make resolutions for changes we want to make in the New Year. If one of the things you wanted to do was volunteer, we want you! Comox Valley Senior Support is looking for volunteers for all our programs, as well as the Board of Directors. Would you like to visit with a lonely or isolated senior? Or assist someone with accessing services in the community? If so, please contact us to learn more about providing support in your community. We offer training monthly so there are minimal delays to getting started. Volunteers are provided with monthly support meetings and regular education sessions. Contact us today to get started!

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