Do you ever say “Always” or “Never” to a loved one? In relationships, these words act like triggers—putting your partner on the defensive. If you say, “You never load the dishwasher,” their thinking brain shuts down, and their emotions take over. Instead of hearing you, they focus on proving you wrong: “Remember, I did it last Thursday!” Like swearing, “always” and “never” can derail a conversation into conflict. Try softer words like “often” or “sometimes,” or even better, use positive reinforcement: “When you load the dishwasher, I feel cared for. Thank you for considering me.”
Finding Balance Through Pilates
Balance is more than just staying upright—it’s about stability, control, and confidence in movement. Pilates builds balance from the inside out by strengthening deep core muscles, improving posture, and enhancing body awareness. Each exercise trains coordination between mind and muscle, helping you move with precision and grace. As we age, balance becomes vital for preventing falls and maintaining independence; it’s also key for athletic performance and daily ease. Whether on the Reformer or the mat, Pilates teaches you to find equilibrium—physically, mentally, and emotionally—so you can move through life with grounded strength and calm confidence.
Principles of Happier Aging™
We want to change the perceptions of aging. We believe that getting older doesn’t have to feel sad or helpless; instead, aging is something worth celebrating. As Atul Gawande wrote in his book, Being Mortal, “Our ultimate goal, after all, is not a good death but a good life to the very end”. Through our principles of Choice, Belonging, Respect, Autonomy and Purpose, we live Happier Aging. Happier Aging, at home, is our philosophy of care: for our clients, their families, our people and everyone we meet.
Relaxation and Self-Care
Client Testimonial: “Raindrop and endocrine treatments are a regular part of my self-care practice. They are a little break out of the busyness of life where I simply slow down and relax into my body. I feel the release and flow of stuck energy and always leave feeling more clarity and grounded. I’m beyond grateful for Jennifer’s knowledge and expertise in essential oils, her healing touch, and her loving care.” A Raindrop Technique Massage combines massage, distinctive energy approaches, intuitive wisdom, and pure essential oils. An endocrine massage is a relaxing soft touch massage using Young Living essential oils and crystals.
Prioritize Social Interactions
The fall and winter months can restrict our social interactions and activities if we allow that to happen. It is time to prioritize social interactions and become more active. Being social and active is associated with many health benefits; Activities help our physical and mental health while socializing promotes good mental and emotional health. Walking is a perfect activity that can be done outside when conditions permit or indoors in a mall or on a treadmill. Once we start, we tend to do more healthful things, so get out and have a walk with a friend, socialize and engage – you’ll feel better for it!
Biofield Tuning for Change of Season
The fall season often carries a quiet grief. Whether it’s the ache of shifting seasons, the weight of a memory, or the absence of a loved one, as we strive to move forward and through, grounding practices become essential anchors. Biofield Tuning is about attuning to the natural rhythms of nature. It can help us ground and find our way back to the center. During this season, sound can help us reconnect with the earth’s electromagnetic pulse, offering a gentle companion in times of loss and reflection. Contact me for a free consultation.
Convenient Online Pharmacy
The cooler fall weather brings rain and slippery conditions, making it much harder for seniors to go out for their prescription medications. Ordering online is a safe and convenient option. Online pharmacies offer 24/7 service, home delivery, a wide range of products and lower prices. These benefits are especially valuable for individuals with mobility issues, busy schedules, chronic conditions, or those living far from a traditional pharmacy. Be sure to use only verified and licensed online pharmacies. MyPharmacyonline.ca, based in Greater Victoria, offers free delivery or pickup with optional expedited shipping. Their friendly and conscientious staff work hard for your business.
Reduce Your Risk of Cancer
November, aka Movember, is Men’s Health Awareness Month. The Movember movement raises awareness and funds for men’s health, including prostate cancer and testicular cancer. Raising awareness is essential, and so is knowing the things that you can do to reduce your risk of developing cancer. Guidewire: Cancer Seeker is an AI tool that helps estimate your ongoing cancer risk based on your genetics, history, and habits. It generates a report on what you can do to reduce your cancer risk. You can reduce your risk by 30-50% through modifiable factors. Book a free meet-and-greet to invest in your health today.
Take Care of Your Feet
Many of us neglect two of the most important body parts, our feet! Take good care of your feet by following these tips: *Wear shoes that are the proper size to prevent foot problems such as ingrown toenails or hammer toes. *Trim your toenails regularly. When trimming toenails, cut straight across to avoid cutting them too short to help prevent ingrown toenails. *Use a good foot cream to help prevent dry, cracked skin. *Consult a medical professional if you suffer from ingrown toenails, sores, calluses, or blisters. Taking care of your feet will help keep you independent, active, and mobile.
A Stress-Free Retirement
For many Vancouver Island couples, retirement feels like running a marathon with one shoelace untied. You’re still moving forward, but it’s not exactly graceful. After decades of mortgage payments, most own their home, yet their cash flow still limps. That’s where a reverse mortgage steps in. One Island couple swapped $2,100 monthly payments for a financially stress-free retirement. They kept their home, cleared debts, and now stroll the breakwater each morning, finally able to treat themselves to life’s little luxuries without guilt. It’s an innovative, flexible solution that I use to help retirees live better every month.
Embrace Simple Moments
November is a heartwarming month for many seniors, filled with connection and colourful leaves. Family gatherings like Thanksgiving offer precious time with loved ones, while traditions spark memories and joy. The season’s slower pace allows for meaningful reflection, warm blankets, and quiet moments. Community events, volunteering, and preparing for the holidays also bring purpose and excitement. With crisp air, a warm jacket and a focus on gratitude, November offers seniors a beautiful balance of peace and celebration. It’s a time to embrace simple moments and the richness of life’s memories and relationships.


